Tell me again how we will be lovers and friends

Tell me again how we will be lovers and friends is a good question. Have you ever been in that situation where you start to have these funny feelings for someone who you always thought of as a nothing more than a friend? But you don’t want to admit it, let alone act on it because it could ruin everything. It could ruin the relationship and trust you’ve built up over the years. You could lose your best friend. And by now life has taught you that friends are hard to come by and losing one for something as simple as sex just isn’t smart.

Tell me again how we will be lovers and friends!

So the smart thing to do is just ignore what you feel till it goes away. That is usually the smartest thing to do. Because the chances of it becoming the “real deal” are slim. Well, that is if you believe your past experiences.  And that is where “Tell me again how we will be lovers and friends came” from.

Because sometimes the dream of it being the real thing is stronger than the logic of not doing anything that could ruin it. So what if your friend decides to actually tell you how they feel and tell you they want more. Most of us will be hesitant at first and say something like “Tell me again how we will be lovers and friends”. But some of you guys … yes, some of you … are just dirty asswipes who WAIT for this moment. The whole friendship was based on the possibility that this moment might come. And that is why it’s so hard for people to trust each other and that is why people tend to stay friends even if they KNOW that the other side wants more.

That is the friend zone and that is the intricacy of a platonic relationship. So before you actually dive in and go all the way, make sure you have a solid conversation of what you can expect and what each side wants out of this. And please oh please be honest, because lying about what you expect will only leave you disappointed if you don’t get it. So make sure you double check by asking “Tell me again how we will be lovers and friends”. And then you can also ask all the questions I asked in this video right here:

Tell me again how we will be lovers and friends

If you liked this piece then I am sure you will like the pieces in my book as well. Have yourself a great day and make sure to come back next week for some more poetry.